Hi Rita, I think many do find it, but do not understand it until they are older and it is lost. We live too long these days for first love. I have a theory, written over wine of course, where you should have your first starter person you marry for lust and supposed love, then you reach your late 30s and trade that one in for raising kids, careers and enjoying life, then when you are in your late 50s you dump that one and find your soul mate... at least this is my theory, maybe a bad one, but I am sticking with it. Thank you for the read Rita, you are appreciated.