Hi Stephanie, i have found, after many long decades of trying to help and guide others, that women and men never become who they can be until they accept themselves as the unique person they are. When you stop comparing yourself, your looks, your writing, your money or whatever else concerns you, with others and just start today being okay with who you are and what you want, you sort of arrive in your own life. There is no one like you, and never will be, and who you are as a unique individual is enough for the rest of us. Thank you for the read and comment Stephanie and I hope you start the morning with a smile and a “damn, I am going to be okay,” smart ass attitude.